Tuesday, March 19, 2013

A 3 Month Old in Da HOUSE!

Wow! This boy is desperate to be a big kid.

Although this "little" man is still attempting to sit up on his own with very little success, he has in fact mastered another milestone- rolling from back to front. We officially have a roller. He especially loves practicing his rolling during diaper changes, making me look forward to the task all the more *deadpan expression*.However, my proud mommy moment ("my boy can roll!") was short-lived when I realized he would no longer continue his good bed time routine. We had it down and perfected. Bath time, eat, swaddle, swing, bed, and sleep. He did so great for so many weeks to see it all end, was, in a word, sad. Because of his new skill we have had to stop swaddling cold turkey, it has become too dangerous to leave him pinned when he is rolling over to his tummy. Too many times I have gone in to see him with his face smooshed into his mattress. Scary! SO we have spent many less than sleep full nights trying to figure out the best solution, only to settle on the obvious and most difficult. No more cozy comfort for baby. Just free movement and unsettling jerks. It has been hard on both myself and Silas. I am used to being sleep deprived, but he isn't and believe me, that boy needs some good sleep. Our poor little Butterball...

In addition to his roley poley-ness, he is really starting to figure out the technique needed to crawl. He is moving them arms and legs and getting his butt way up in the air. I feel safe saying that with more floor time, he will be crawling by five months. I feel both proud and terrified. He is so determined. Tummy time is no longer a time of screaming, but has become a time of pure determination and will to move. This kid hates being horizontal and just wants to be up. We have even started propping him up in his walker and he loves being able to just look around. He can't reach the floor yet, so he is stuck in one place, but he loves the ability to move his head around and see everything from a more "grown up" position.

More and more his personality is shining through. I think he definitely going to be an observer like his daddy and more inquisitive than silly... something to look forward to once he can talk ;) . If I had to guess, I'd say he going to be a go getter and pretty independent. Who really knows, but basing my assumption on what I am seeing now, that is my best prediction for the little boy to come.

He is for sure a momma's boy right now. Loves me! It makes me feel so good :) , but he still talks more with his daddy. I am more of his comfort and the pro at getting him to sleep, it doesn't hurt that I am his only source of food. If all else fails to comfort- feed. It is handy.


Things he loves:
Being sung to
Cooing
Bath time
Interacting with Mommy and Daddy
Bouncing
Raspberries on his belly
Being airplane baby

Things he hates:
No one paying attention to him
Being in a lying or sitting position (has to be up all the time)
Naps. Yes, at one point he was napping so well. Now, he hates 'em. I suppose we are at the point where day time is exploring-and-figuring-things-out time.
His Carseat. Oh my gosh he HATES his carseat, now titled The Seat of Sadness



There is no continuous daily routine with this kiddo. He switches it up on me every day and I have to try to keep up. I would never say it is easy, but it is worth it and it can be a LOT of fun. Sometimes I just have to grit my teeth and get through the day, but those little toothless hammy smiles make the tough days much easier to handle. One just has to remain thankful and realize the gift of such a miracle. Because of some very special people, I have been able to keep perspective and not complain (too much) when things are hard. I am beyond thankful for his precious life, even at 4am when he wants to play and all I want to do is go back to bed. He is the best baby EVER!

R and T update later...

Peas out ;)

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Workin' On Workin' Out

We continue to make progress in the Martin household. Silas will sometimes sleep for 7 hours straight, other times he only goes for 3 or 5, but either way I feel like we are making decent progress. Even if that progress goes up and down like a roller coaster. I will take it! Oh right!

In other news, Rob and myself are both working on getting leaner and more in shape. We just threw out a bunch of food (sorry Mimi) in hopes of making better snacking decisions. We have a new grocery shopping rule: I will only buy Coke and a jug of juice once a month so Rob has to watch his sugar intake. Additionally, I have gotten a some delish looking recipes for healthy homemade granola and granola bars as well as (and I am super excited about this one) a recipe for Apple Carrot Bran Muffins. Yummmmm... I will let you know how they turn out. They make them fresh at a grocery store up here and they are SO good. I hope mine will be just as good, will find out soon.

Obviously with this "new" way of eating we are upping our workouts. We are both making a stronger attempt to work out 5 times a week. It has not been an easy thing to keep up with, especially with a baby, but we are getting there. I had to join the YMCA in order to have childcare and thankfully that membership provides me with free classes. YESSSS!!! I just tried my first one this week, Body Sculpt. This class seems similar to Body Pump but more cardio.  As for how effective it is, let's just say Silas seems to have gained 10 more pounds and our stairs seem like they have gained a few more steps... rough. HOWEVER, me and Rob feel great about our decisions and have set a goal to be down 10 pounds by early May for the EOD Ball. Something to work toward! I don't expect things to go perfectly, but I hope we can maintain motivation well enough to make our goals.

For your benefit and curiousity I would take before, during and after pictures in order to show my progress, but I am not comfortable showing my figure to the public, even if I maintain coverage. BUT I will be happy to share my progress through words...
I am starting this journey at 144-146 lbs. My goal is to be at 135 by May 3, but my ultimate goal is 130. My workouts include:
Running- Monday, Thursday, Friday
Pilates and Body Sculpt classes alternating Tuesdays
Kickboxing Classes and Weights alternating Saturdays
Rest on Sundays and Wednesdays
I have made this plan with no real knowledge of what I should be doing. My intended routine is just a mixture of things I know I need to do and things I want to do.
Hopefully by sharing this goal with my friends and family it will help to motivate and encourage me, which will in turn help motivate Rob. Of course we are giving ourselves some wiggle room because we have an infant and life can't always be predictable, unfortunately. It's a good thing this baby is SO cute, see-

Cute Sleepy Boy
 
-makes the unpredictable nature of our lives much more enjoyable when we get to converse with, cuddle and kiss this adorable little nugget of chunky-ness. We are smitten.


If you have some pointers or are doing something and would like some encouragement, please tell me all about it and I would be happy to be a support to you :) .